Today I feel the need to clarify what pre-session planning consists of, what to expect and what I expect from you, and most importantly, what you should NOT expect. Yesterday I had a potential “slave” think it was ok to stand Me up because I didn’t “coddle” him enough in our pre-session emails. So let’s … More What to Expect Prior to your Session (and what NOT to expect)

Well, I was happy to be able to (briefly) attend FetishCon this year, but I’ll have to chalk this one up to a learning experience on what to do differently if I go again next year. I didn’t really know what to expect and was kind of just winging it, and even the small plans … More FetishCon23 : a learning experience

I wanted to take a few moments today to discuss the most important element of any BDSM scene; communication. Your Mistress is many things, but a mind reader is not one of them. Therefore, it’s in your best interest as the sub/slave to be as thorough as possible in discussing your interests. I need to … More The Importance of Communication in BDSM Play

I got the most disturbing email earlier and as much as I wanted to dismiss it as some nutter or someone trying to f*ck with Me, I can’t help but feel extremely disturbed by the possibility that it’s not. The email was from someone I’ve never communicated with before and stated: “Hi, I just got … More Possible impersonator/spoofer/scammer??!!

As we approach the start of the New Year, I just wanted to take a moment to reflect on the previous year. Particularly the last six months as I embarked on My new life here in Florida. It was a bit of a roller coaster for awhile, from finding a place and getting down here, … More …And a Kinky New Year!

I was inspired to write this post after a recent interaction with a potential “sub” who actually was more as described in this title. After some discussion in email, he said a few things that raised some red flags and made Me feel uncomfortable about playing with him, so I chose to decline the session. … More Entitled little wankers need not apply

*Legal Disclaimer: These phone sessions are for fantasy purposes only; nothing we discuss on these calls is an agreement of anything I will do in person.* If you can’t make it to an in person session, or would just like to chat before doing so, I have two available options on Niteflirt; The first link … More Phone Sessions

you will await Me in the location I leave you, stripped & kneeling. When I enter the room, you will not speak until spoken to. With your head bowed, I will place my leather collar around your neck; whilst you wear My collar, this signifies that you are My slave, My possession, an object for … More A kinky encounter