Today I feel the need to clarify what pre-session planning consists of, what to expect and what I expect from you, and most importantly, what you should NOT expect.
Yesterday I had a potential “slave” think it was ok to stand Me up because I didn’t “coddle” him enough in our pre-session emails. So let’s make this perfectly clear; that is NOT something you should expect, and if you need that in order to follow through, you’re not ready and shouldn’t be scheduling at all. That is NOT at all the purpose of our pre-session emailing.
Choosing to serve a Mistress should be a decision you come to on your own, and you should only contact that Mistress once you are committed and ready to serve. I’m not here to try to persuade you or talk you into anything. If you are not mentally ready to submit, take some time to think about it more and contact Me when you are 100% sure. If you need Me to hold your hand through the entire process, you are not truly ready to submit, and it would not be ethical for me to try to “coerce” you by any means.
When you approach your Mistress, you should be ready to fully explore your submissive side; that means leaving behind your ego and any sense of entitlement, and approaching with a humble and respectful attitude.
Secondly, the primary purpose of our pre-session emailing is for Me to learn about you. To learn about your interests, fetishes, fantasies, experience level, limits, and anything else of relevance, so that I can then take that information and weave it into a mind blowing session that you won’t soon forget. Our email communication is for you to supply Me with the information I need to create an enjoyable in person session for when we do meet. It is not meant to be an “email session”. My energy is going to be focused on putting together an amazing real life session for us. It is an inefficient use of my time to also be expected to “spoon-feed” you by responding with multiple unnecessarily long emails prior to the session. And again, if that’s something you need, you are not a true sub and not in the right mental state required to properly submit for a session.
Your emails to Me can be as long as needed to communicate everything I need to know about you to build the session. My responses are not required to be nor should be expected to be anything but concise and to the point; all the information about Myself and My interests that you need to know is defined here, clearly and in detail, on this website that I spend my time and money to maintain.
As a sub/slave, it is your duty to familiarise yourself with all the info I have laid out here so you don’t have to waste My time asking Me the same questions that could be answered if you’d only have taken the time to read My website. It is one of My biggest pet peeves when a supposed slave keeps asking Me questions that make it blatantly obvious he didn’t even take the time to read the information I’ve spent so much time to meticulously define on this website.
So, for example, you don’t have to keep asking Me if your interests are ok with Me, because as I state on the main page of this site, if I’ve agreed to see you, that means I approve of your interests. If I didn’t, I would simply tell you, “it doesn’t sound like we’re compatible, but good luck in finding a Mistress more in line with your interests.”
What I will NOT do, which I also definitively state on the main page of this website, is to discuss explicit details of specific activities and what I will do during every aspect of the session.
I also specifically state that we will have a verbal in person consultation when you arrive for your session, in which we can then discuss any additional details that either of us need to.
Third, I have a very specific protocol that EVERYONE must follow when booking a session. It’s really quite simple, but it’s also your first true test to show Me you will be a good submissive.
You are given a specific time to confirm by text message prior to your session. And because I do understand that you may not be able to text at that exact time due to work or other obligations, I do give you the option to confirm earlier. (Understanding that I will still respond at the original given time). *This step is very important*, to show Me you are ready and willing to submit and can/ will follow instructions, and also just for practicality, so that I know for sure you are still coming in. (You’d be surprised how many time wasters there are out there.) Therefore, I don’t start getting ready until I receive that text confirmation, so if you confirm late, I won’t have enough time to get ready. Also, confirming late shows that you don’t respect My time or boundaries, aren’t willing to follow instructions, and raises a red flag.
And finally, whether this is My first time seeing you or 50th, you must always text to let me know you’ve arrived, and then wait for permission to come to the door. If you show up 15 minutes early, I will not be ready and you will be expected to wait until closer to your scheduled start time, until I grant permission for you to come to the door. Showing up early does not in any way signify that I can or would be ready to see you any earlier. I don’t have a receptionist to let you in if I’m still getting ready, so if you show up at my door 10 or 15 minutes early, you will be left waiting there until I’m actually ready.
It’s really all quite simple; read My website, provide the information I ask for, and follow the instructions I give you. In other words, be a good slave and do as you’re told.
Then, just show up, obedient and ready to serve, and you will experience the session of your best fantasies. 😉
Win/ win, yes?
Esoteric Domination by Mistress Jasmine 